The Pioneer of the Rebirth Era

Yang Dongxu of the Municipal People's Hospital was waiting in line holding Xiao Wenwu. The little guy was not covered when he slept yesterday, and the air conditioner was blowing in the summer, which was not very good for the body to catch a cold.

In terms of education, Yang Dongxu actually doesn't agree with Zhou Ya, and he always puts the child first in everything. Bai Qian's absolute elite education.

How old is Xiao Wenwu now?

I haven't started kindergarten yet, I just need to teach numbers, a few ancient poems, and some simple characters.

As a result, Baiqian started to train the little guy to play the piano now, saying that his temperament was developed from an early age, and besides that, he also enrolled in some cram schools for infants and young children.

Are kids going to school crazier now than later generations?

Later generations also go to elementary school, when they are promoted to junior high school, junior high school to senior high school, and high school to university. Only at these critical stages will they crazily suppress children's private time and hobbies.

Now children have to grab dolls to make up lessons?

Yang Dongxu doesn't like Baiqian's other elite teaching methods besides studying.

For example, when the little guy is sick, the first thing Bai Qian thinks of is a private doctor, which is understandable. But every time I go out, surrounded by a group of bodyguards, this is actually a bit too much.

This made Yang Dongxu think of the stars who were besieged three floors inside and three floors outside when they were filming in later generations, and directly occupied the road in some public places.

The anger of being a poor dick in his heart almost didn't burst out directly.

So as if willful, Yang Dongxu directly took the little guy to line up to see the doctor.

Compared with the family doctor who diagnoses the child at home and then prescribes medicine and injections, the parents put the child to sleep.

When holding the little guy at the party, although the little guy was a little sluggish because of his life, his eyes still looked around with novelty.

Yang Dongxu once again confirmed that Baiqian's parenting style simply framed the child to death. She wrote down all her hopes for her son and all her future plans for his son, and then let the little guy move towards his goal step by step.

"Knowledge must be learned. I have no objection. It is always good to know more. But when you build self-confidence for your child, you are given self-confidence.

Not to mention that he should not feel that he is a higher level than others, and that he is different from other luxury car bodyguards. You have to let him have his own ideas, even his own wildness. And what we have to do is to guide this wildness, not to restrain this wildness, and give him a new character. "

After getting the injection and getting into the car, Yang Dongxu sat on the back seat holding the little guy and said to Bai Qian next to him.

Bai Qian, who had always been obedient to her, pouted a little at this time, obviously very unconvinced.

Because she is quite confident in education. After all, Baijia has been counted from her grandfather to her third generation.

This education has never been a problem. Even Baian, which makes people feel a little useless, is good enough for ordinary people.

His waste is only because of too much contrast with the people around him.

Who do you see compared to him?

Bai Qian, the strong woman known as the Hundred Queen, and Yang Dongxu, who can be said to be self-made, are just in their thirties and can be on an equal footing with the patriarch of a big family.

Comparing to the top, it doesn't compare with Bai'an's father who has no great achievements at all, but directly compares with Bai Lao.

As soon as he opened his mouth, he said, if you have half the ability of your grandfather, you can do what you want.

But is Baian really that incompetent?

People's undergraduate diplomas did not go through the back door for real exams, and it was in the early 1990s that the undergraduate degree had a high gold content, which is already top-notch.

Therefore, Baiqian is very confident in the educational philosophy of Baijia, not to mention the education of Xiao Wenwu, which is an upgrade from Baijia's educational philosophy.

"Like Wen Chen, let's educate separately. You take care of the children's studies, and I will take care of the children's daily play and character development."

Having said that, Yang Dongxu couldn't help thinking of the scene where he and Zhou Ya were arguing about how to raise their son Wenchen.

So I just put it on my son according to this routine.

Since both parties feel that they are right, then each takes care of it.

"What's so bad about elite education? Not to mention the large consortium families abroad, even in China, everyone is letting their children take the elite route."

"I didn't say that the elite route is bad, but you are obviously overdoing it. And what you have to admit is that most of the time the so-called elite route can only cultivate talents above the average level.

Do you know the comparison between the chances of actually producing top talents and the number of people going to jail?

The latter far exceeds the former, because they are elites, so they accept more temptations. You can't let him feel that he is superior to others, and when he makes mistakes in the future, he still thinks that he is superior, and he will lose money if he hurts inferior people. "

"I didn't raise my son in this way. He played very well with the children in the kindergarten. He often visited the children's homes, and they also came to our home." Bai Qian felt that Yang Dongxu had distorted her educational philosophy a bit.

"You didn't educate him like this, but the environment you created for him is like this. And you have planned everything for him. Is it really what he wants?

Or do you mean that everything you have planned for him now must be in line with the era when he grew up?

So I have no objection to the sentence of learning knowledge, which will never become obsolete. But in terms of shaping the character of children, your business is education is not enough, children must go through beatings. "

"You let the child play like crazy, take the child to chase rabbits in the fields, go fishing, and let him engage in heart mud monkeys, just like beating education?"

"I know you want to raise your child to be a gentleman, and you don't want him to be too vulgar? But do you know that sometimes being a hooligan is actually better and more comfortable than being a gentleman?

Don't think that you have suffered a lot and suffered a lot of grievances. So I don't want my child to suffer from these grievances and hardships, so I give him all-round protection.

Such a child is worthless when he grows up, and don't tell me that you don't need him to be worthwhile. As long as he is a gentleman enough to live his life happily. All fools know the reason why it is a crime to conceive a bi.

And being a gentleman is what you ask of your children, and this request is not your original intention. It's just because a child who is a gentleman can show off to other parents and let people praise your son for his promise. "

"I don't." Bai Qian yelled, but just after she yelled, her voice fell again. She glanced at her son who was still sleeping in Yang Dongxu's arms, and gave her man a hard look.

"Yes, but you didn't realize it. In fact, it's not just you, many parents of children have this problem. For example, you are very happy when your child comes first in the test.

Then other parents praise your child for being the first, and you will feel more face. Then he told his children to study hard, and to take the first place in the exam next time, which was actually mixed with personal vanity. "

"My son took the first place in the exam, is it wrong for me to be proud?"

"That's right, I'm also happy that my son took the first place in the exam. What I mean is, you can't force your child to take the first place next time just because of this kind of happiness.

And this cold nose and cold face, in addition to the child's decline in test scores. There is another parent who is taking the first child test and smiles happily in front of you. You are not convinced, are you? " Yang Dongxu asked.

"I know what you said makes sense, but isn't it human nature? And what's wrong with being a gentleman? You can be a modest gentleman, why do you have to act like a bum.

I know what you said, a gentleman is easy to suffer. Sometimes rogues do take advantage. But who told you that I only teach my son to be a gentleman, not to be scheming and scheming? " Bai Qian looked at Yang Dongxu like an idiot.

She is also a person who has experienced severe beatings in society. Doesn't she know that gentlemen in this world suffer a lot?

She really hopes that her son will live a happy life, which is the common wish of every parent.

But she also understands the truth of the crime of being pregnant, and now she is training her son to learn more things, which is used to disguise and protect herself in the future. She will let her son have the appearance of a gentleman, but she will also give him a knife.

"What you are talking about is superstructure. What I'm talking about is laying a solid foundation for my son. A person with an open-minded personality and a strong will.

In order to accommodate all the gentlemen and knives in your request. Without enough tenacious nerves and an open-minded attitude, if something is a little wrong, the child's heart will become distorted, you know?

You have been tempered by society, so you know when to be reasonable and when to use a knife.

Has he been tempered by society? You teach him how to be a gentleman while teaching him how to stab a knife. If such contradictory theories appear on a piece of white paper at the same time, do you want the child to be schizophrenic? "

"I'm not teaching together. I'm just cultivating the child's knowledge base. I'll teach him a little bit when he's older." Bai Qian retorted unconvinced.

"Do you know why the proportion of homosexuals with high education is much higher than that of ordinary people? Do you know the proportion of suicides, why the social elite is higher than the working people?"

"Ah..." Bai Qian paused for a moment.

"Knowledge and personal recuperation, personality, and three views are completely different things. But these things are interrelated and grow together.

It's not that you only teach your child knowledge, he only grows knowledge reserves. When learning knowledge, his age is growing and his character is maturing.

Every day when he goes out, he will see different people and encounter different things. These are all things that affect children all the time, and they don't exist if you don't teach them.

So you can't ignore other aspects for the time being just because you let your children learn knowledge. You can't feel that your son can learn to hold a knife, so teach him to hold a knife.

Before you get it, why should you take a knife and when should you take it out. When holding a knife is more deterrent than taking it out, the foundation must be laid in advance.

It's not that you feel that he is old enough to learn this, and then plant a seed, and he will grow out of it after watering it. There is a high chance that it will become crooked. He will hack without any scruples with a knife, you know that? "

"I teach knowledge, and every day my son knows a few words, which is a growth that can be seen. You take your son to play all kinds of games, what kind of madness did you teach?" Bai Qian was still not convinced.

"Whether a person is a talent, not to mention how many poems I learned today, and how much force I will increase by learning that boxing technique tomorrow, so the conditions and conditions are clearly divided.

Things must be learned, this is the foundation. But the foundation is only the foundation, and the accumulation of the laid foundations to cause qualitative changes is the key to success.

You can see Wen Chen whether it is useful for me to teach children like this. Zhou Ya would occasionally take him to a teaching place during the holidays.

When he gave his children his own toys, he never stood at a superior angle, but instead played wildly with poor children.

He will also donate his pocket money, but after donating all the 100 yuan pocket money that Zhou Ya gave him for the first time.

He didn't eat ice cream for a month, because the one hundred yuan was Zhou Ya's share of buying ice cream for him for a month. So in the second donation, he will only donate 50.

Then take the other 50 to sell ice cream and eat it with the children. He is caring because not every child can give up half of the ice cream.

He also has his own selfish side, so he spends 50 yuan to buy ice cream for everyone to eat together. While he is helping others, he can also enjoy his mouth.

You can say it's clever, or you can say it's not pure enough. But I think this is very good, and it is good to help people as much as possible. I paid for everything, I admire such a person, but I will not let my son be such a person. "

Bai Qian was silent and did not speak.

Yang Dongxu continued, "What you teach civil and martial arts now is to let him be a gentleman, even if he has only a dime in his pocket, he will give him the last dime in his pocket when he meets a beggar.

And when you teach him to hold a knife after a while, you teach him that even if he has 1 million in his pocket, he doesn't want to give him a dollar when he meets a beggar. Because the person with the knife has to be ruthless and selfish.

This kind of teaching is correct for ordinary people, because they start too low and want to go up and break the monopoly of class. Both knowledge and force must go to extremes.

Because they need to have a skill to stand out from the crowd of ordinary people. My son doesn't need this, they don't need to go to extremes, because his father has given him the best start.

What he needs to do is as long as he is not crazy and his three views are normal, he can already lie down and win. Of course, the knife must still be held. Lying to win is not to rely on one's laurels. When others attack, one must have the ability and strength to swing a knife.

But you can't train him to hold a knife just to train him. It was okay when I was a child, the child is going to enter the rebellious period of youth, are you sure you can still suppress his character? "

"I can't change the character of the child's rebellious period, but you can change it."

"I can't change it either." Yang Dongxu said.

Bai Qian just gave him a blank stare, what nonsense are you talking about if you can't change it?

"I can't change it, but I can influence it. For example, our son made a friend during the rebellious period. We all know that this friend is not good enough to let him not associate with the other party.

But he definitely wouldn't listen because he was in the rebellious period. At this time, you can give him a sum of money first, so that he and this friend can be cool.

And after the money is spent, directly block his economy. Let him spend his friend's money. I have money for young people's loyalty and everyone spends it. If I don't have money, can you give me money to spend?

When a friend spends our son's money and doesn't want to give him money to spend. He will see this person clearly. "

"The other party knows that our family is rich, deliberately approached our son, and set up a trap for our son. Will you expose it so easily?"

"Then don't expose it, let him continue to cheat. One million, if you are not satisfied, let him cheat 10 million, and if you are not satisfied with 10 million, let him cheat 100 million.

With 100 million, do you think he will leave our son directly and become a handsome man, or continue to kneel and lick like a dog in front of our son?

He has me as an old man. As long as the three views are correct, he has the capital to get up again after being cheated countless times. And the more the other party cheats on such things, the greater the success rate of our son's one-time transformation. "

The corner of Yang Dongxu's mouth revealed an absolute confidence.

Bai Qian glanced at her man and didn't speak.

He didn't ask the other party what if he kept lying to his son for a lifetime?

Will the son never grow up?

Leaving aside the fact that my son was growing up, perhaps without the deception and beatings of this kind of society, he can understand a lot of truths.

If you really encounter a situation where you keep lying, do you really think Young Master Yang is a vegetarian?

Yang Dongxu has kept a low profile these years, but with such a huge family business, do you really think Yang Dongxu is as harmless as the surface?

Are all the methods he learned from Mr. Xuan since he was a child really useless to feed the dogs?

There was silence in the car. After a while, Yang Dongxu thought of something: "You teach your son to be so extreme now, it can't be because I seldom come to accompany him. Use this method to let me take care of him?"

The more Yang Dongxu thinks about it, the more he thinks it is possible, otherwise, with Baiqian's IQ, it seems that she would not do such a radical thing.

Bai Qian was silent and did not speak.

"Next time you have something to say, don't use my son as a pawn for temptation."

"You think I think, you only visit your son a few times a year? You don't have as much time with Wenwu as your parents?"

"Why don't you say that before Wenchen went to kindergarten, he was taken by Zhou Ya in his hometown, and I didn't spend much time with him in a year?"

"Hmph." Bai Qian snorted coldly and fell silent.

Obviously, she knew that she was wrong in this regard, but she would still do it for the sake of her son.

A woman's mentality is definitely different when she has children and does not have children.

She didn't want to compete with Zhou Ya for Yang Dongxu's position, nor did she want her son to compete for any family property, but this father's love cannot treat one more favorably than another.

"A woman's opinion, will I feel sorry for my son?" Yang Dongxu glared at Bai Qian angrily.