The Perfect Hidden Marriage

She had asked him this question before, but his answer was more like a joke.

What did he answer at that time?

Well, he said:

"I'm attracted by your ability to draw; I'm attracted by your ability to dance; I'm attracted by your strength, your willpower not to surrender to fate, and your willingness to be ordinary..."

Afterwards, he added:

"I still need it. It's destined fate...Xiao Su, you and I are lost and found again..."

The word "lost and found" was used in such a weird way. She thought it was strange at the time, and it felt more and more like it now.

Is it because her charm is somewhat similar to Gu Lijun's?

So, he had the illusion of "lost and found"?

This assumption is absolutely disgusting.

And it doesn’t match Jin Yuan’s judgment just now.

It's obviously wrong.

The most important thing is that Jin Hengyuan once said this to his mother:

"Mom, I was wrong. I shouldn't have forced myself. I would rather be lacking than overdoing it. Why am I so stupid? Why do I have to use that method to force myself to let go..."

These words must have profound meaning.

Could it be that before he fell in love with Gu Lijun, he liked someone else?

Because that person didn't like him, he tried to fall in love with Gu Lijun in order to let go. Therefore, Gu Lijun was not particularly important, so he never had the idea of ​​taking him home? Didn't sleep with her either?

But later, after so many things happened, he recognized his own heart and stopped falling in love?

But why did he fall in love with her, Su Jin?

So, the problem is back to its original point.

It's impossible, he must have liked her from the beginning!

Therefore, it is said that it is lost and found again.

In this way, the causes and consequences seem to become smooth and clear.

However, she shook her head to deny this incredible assumption in her mind.

In short, she couldn't figure it out, so she sighed secretly, and stopped thinking about the issue. Instead, she tried to judge what Jin Yuan said about the incident and the rights and wrongs of several important characters in the incident.

Undoubtedly, in this relationship with Gu Lijun, Jin Hengyuan was considered the most innocent one. He was inexplicably used as a shield, and he entered into a relationship for more than three years in vain, but ended up with this result. It's heartbreaking.

Gu Lijun should not provoke Jin Hengyuan.

But her starting point was to protect herself.

What's more, in the end, she was hopelessly trapped.

Her feelings for Jin Hengyuan were not adulterated.

It was precisely because of her deep love that she was in such pain during the subsequent changes.

So is Xiao Zhidong wrong?

In the first place, he shouldn't have helped Gu Lijun and left the two siblings to fend for themselves. Then nothing would have happened, right?

But he just supported her, and then he faintly fell in love with Gu Lijun, who grew up to be Tingting Yuli.

During the process of raising him, did Xiao Zhidong engage in any obscene behavior?

No.

He was relatively rational and did not get involved with her while growing up.

And silent love is a right that anyone can retain.

Just like movie fans like a certain celebrity, fans like a certain football star. Just like men love to see beautiful women, girls love to see beautiful men. The nature is almost the same.

After knowing that Gu Lijun was in love with his son, he used his sword of wisdom to cut off that delusion and happily agreed to their marriage.

This shows that his mind is still in the right place.

When things develop to this point, everything is originally happy.

As a result, after a kidnapping, everyone's fate was misaligned.

They made a difficult choice between life and death. In order to survive, they endured pain.

The whole world has been turned upside down, and it will never be the same again. There is nothing we can do about it.

Jin Yuan's stop was right. As a mother, she just wanted to protect her son...

Xiao Zhidong's persecution was relatively cruel, but from his perspective as a father, doing so was excusable, but for Gu Lijun, it was extremely bad - he ruined Gu Lijun and created a tragedy himself marriage.

Su Jin took a sip of tea and felt extremely complicated. She suddenly thought that the reason why she and Jin Hengyuan got married was all based on the unbearable events that had happened in the past.

And those things are regrettable.

Assuming that those things had not happened in the past, then she would not have been his wife...

well……

When she thinks that she is his wife now and what happened before, her mood will be very bad.

However, she suppressed it and did not want to be disturbed by those emotions. Instead, she removed herself from the incident and asked again as a bystander:

"Auntie, there are still two things I don't understand..."

Jin Yuan smiled faintly, originally wanting her to say it, but unexpectedly, the mobile phone placed on the table began to sing briskly.

"Sorry, I'm going to take a call first."

"Please!"

She answered the phone, speaking in English.

Jin Yuan's English is authentic, fluent, and full of British flavor. She speaks extremely fast and decisively, and she talks about business matters.

This person was very gentle and considerate when facing her; when facing official matters, he was resolute and resolute - in Su Jin's view, such a woman and Xiao Zhidong should be a match made in heaven: she is both a strong woman and a strong woman. The necessary qualities, and the unique gentleness of a little woman.

After eighteen years of marriage, she was still going to get divorced, which showed how much Xiao Zhidong had disappointed her.

Su Jin leaned there and watched, thinking, and slowly, he thought of Jin Hengyuan.

Doesn't he have any responsibility for that matter?

But if he had no responsibility, why didn't he defend himself yesterday?

She has no solution.

*

Jin Yuan made two overseas phone calls for more than an hour.

On the coffee table, there is a hardcover version of "Impotence", which Jia Ping has dented.

She had read this book, but it was many years ago.

Su Jin took it in his hand and saw that there were many annotations on it, so he wrote down all the readers' reading experience.

I think it was written by Jin Yuan.

There are a few sentences that are very interesting.

for example:

“This impetuous mentality was partly caused by the political reform at that time.

“Looking back at the impetuousness around us now, the reason is just like what is said in the book: it is caused by the contradiction between the awakening and high level of subjective consciousness and the low quality of some people.

"In today's modern society where spiritual development cannot keep up with material progress, if you want to avoid such an unhealthy psychological state, you need to spontaneously enrich your own psychological knowledge, and achieve a good situation where spiritual wealth and material wealth are equal."

The text silk show is small, clean and beautiful.

"It was just a joke, written casually!"

At some point, Jin Yuan finished answering the phone and came over.

"It's very meaningful."

Su Jin said softly.

Jin Yuan smiled slightly:

"Today's society is an impetuous society. What we should do is not to be impatient and to take every step steadily.

"Sometimes I reflect on it. If I hadn't pushed Hengyuan too hard, introduced him to a girlfriend so desperately, and been less impetuous, maybe his mentality would have been broader and more stable.

“Now that I think about it, it’s quite normal for men to get married in their thirties!

"At that time, why did I have to want him to get married early and find a home early?

“In other words, the later a man gets married, the more stable his mentality will be and the more stable his marriage will be.

"When you get married at a young age, firstly, you are already impetuous due to your age, and secondly, you are too easily dazzled by the outside world.

“It is unwise to get married for the sake of getting married and to have children for the sake of having children.

“Only men with truly mature minds will know how to manage life and family.

"There are advantages for men to marry later."

These words make perfect sense.

Whether physically or psychologically, men usually mature later than women.

A late-maturing man who marries early often has cognitive limitations in his judgment. When he grows up quickly, if he is dissatisfied with the status quo, his marriage is prone to crisis; a man who marries late, sees too much, and has a mature concept of home. When you meet the woman you want, you will cherish it even more.

People, only after experiencing setbacks, will they learn to be open-minded, tolerant and considerate.

"By the way, what did you want to ask just now?"

Jin Yuan took the topic back.

"oh!"

Su Jin closed the book and put it back where it belonged: "I have two questions, and I would like to ask my aunt."

"Say it!"

"One, how come Gu Lijun looks exactly the same as Brother Jingxun's mother?"

She was extremely confused about this:

"Gu Lijun said that Hengyuan's father and her father are schoolmates. Does this mean that Hengyuan's father also recognizes her mother?"