Musashi of the Elves

The child has just been 2 years old, and the parent-child reading is 1.5 years.

I believe in the meaning and value of reading, which all parents know clearly. So I don't want to talk about the big reason for this answer, but I want to talk about some [little things] that happened to my children because of [reading]. Spread more than 7,000 words and show some real small examples, hoping to show everyone the traces of reading on children. At the same time, I will make a summary of the year and a half for me and my child, cheer and cheer myself up. 1. Is your child so well-behaved by nature?

In the community yard, in the hospital, vaccinated, in the vegetable market, in the playground, in the park, in the library, and returning to the hometown... On many occasions, people ask: Is your child so well-behaved, is it natural? Is it natural? I don't know.

I always laugh and say, "This is my birth!"

Even being invited to share parenting experience, I said there is indeed a secret: reading. The following real stories are sorted by age in months. 1. Babies less than one year old, successfully weaned in three days, all the credit goes to it! UU mom’s circle of friends, record the weaning process

Weaning is a difficult thing for mothers. The difficulty lies in you knowing it is the child's favorite, but you are forced to take it away. Seeing the child crying, the mother feels distressed and sad. My baby didn't cry when we were weaned, and my mother's tears flowed into rivers. UU mother’s circle of friends, record the mood of weaning

Because of this picture book, I really fell in love with the picture book, taking parent-child reading as our most important thing. It is also because of this picture book that I have a new definition of the function of the picture book. Not only a book for reading, but also a weapon used to solve the problem of parenting. It was also because of this book that I encountered problems in parenting. My first reaction was to find a picture book! This book is "Goodbye Mom's Milk" UU Mom's Moments. It records the daily bunny, giraffe and elephant babies of early childhood education and picture books. They all eat their mother's milk when they are young, and the baby now also eats mother's milk. The little rabbit has grown up and has teeth, and can chew carrots happily. It says "goodbye" to its mother's milk; when the giraffe grows up, it can eat the tenderest leaves on the treetops, and it says "goodbye" to its mother's milk. When the elephant grows up, he can eat sweet bananas. It says "goodbye" to its mother's milk;

Baby, these are your teeth. You are like small animals. Now you can eat sweet and sour strawberries and apples, fish and shrimps and all kinds of meat, and noodles and buns. You can eat a lot of delicious food. These foods can make your brain smart, great body, and tall. Even if you are weaned, your mother's love for you will not change. When you feel lonely, your mother will accompany you and hold your hand. When you can't sleep, your mother will hold you in her arms.

This book is about to be weaned from 9 months old to 1 year old. Every time I want to drink milk, I hold the book "Goodbye Mom’s Milk". To be honest, I really ran in tears countless times. The weaning process is very smoothly. The baby hardly cried, but I cried and swollen eyes. How can a 1-year-old kid be so sensible? The reason is that with these three months of psychological development, she seems to understand that she has to say goodbye to her mother's milk.

I think there is nothing more to make mom happier and happy than to reduce the baby's pain and crying. If you are a mother who is bothered by weaning, close your eyes in this book "Goodbye Mom's Milk".

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The following words are what she usually tells her grandma, her children, grandparents and grandma. Everyone is more curious, how do children who are more than one year old and less than two years old know so much? (This April is finally 2 years old.)

[New Year] You need to post Spring Festival couplets, post blessings, clean up with your parents (cleaning), and wear new clothes. Adults also give red envelopes to children. "Uncle said that red envelopes are red buns. No. Uncle was wrong. Red envelopes are red envelopes given to children during the New Year. They contain money. Money can buy strawberries, watermelons and large lobsters." ——When I was in the video with my grandma, I said that my uncle didn't understand red envelopes.

Knowing that the earth, moon, and sun are all spinning.

[Christmas] There is the old Santa Claus, who wears red clothes and hats. Give gifts to children in the evening. After the children fall asleep, gently and quietly. The gift is packed in a courier box. ——UU took the picture book prize to his 3-year-old sister

[Mid-Autumn Festival] To eat moon cakes, mother and aunt will make moon cakes for us. UU chords X, YY, HH also make mooncakes together. The sweet moon cakes are so delicious. The moon is round, I know round. (Then find all the circles that can be found at home and put them together)-Tell dad about our Mid-Autumn Festival parent-child activities.

[Spring] There are flowers in spring. Red flowers, pink flowers, green leaves. When I saw the willow tree downstairs, I had to stop and look at the hanging willow branches carefully, and chant a song "Wing the Willow". The neighbor took a video and showed me a video before I knew it. My baby likes to "show off" so much outside hahahaha.

All of the above cognition comes from the picture books we have played and read together. We read picture books, one intensive reading per week, and there is no rule for extensive reading. For this intensive book, my dad and I want to break our heads and expand her fun. Especially during festivals, I think taking advantage of the festive atmosphere in life is the best time to increase new knowledge. At this time, as long as you step out of the house, there are small classrooms everywhere. So a big melody of our picture books is to match the holidays in life, especially traditional Chinese festivals.

?? During the Chinese New Year, we read-Le Fun "New Year's La" @乐快乐directional book

Before and after the New Year, I have been learning about New Year customs with my children, and the whole family has prepared the whole New Year process wholeheartedly. I used to clean up the year before, tell the children about the legend of the New Year, purchase New Year goods with the children, post couplets, and post blessings together; eat New Year’s Eve dinner together, give red envelopes, and make New Year’s crafts-all kinds of firecrackers, candy firecrackers, peanut skins How long is a year for firecrackers and popular science? If you are interested, you can take a look at this very long video and photos. Know the video?

New Year for UU and Mom and Dad

The picture book we read together is "New Year's Day" by Le Fun! Closed eyes into the series recommended by UU mother.

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?? The picture book I read for Christmas is the one in the babyall series What\'sinside@盖世童书

Mom and Dad really took great pains to make Grandpa's sleigh with a bathtub, and then Dad made Christmas hats and Christmas cards for the children. We played the story of the picture book together, and reproduced the content of the picture book in the form of a mind map.

If you are interested, you can watch this long video: Know the video?

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?? Mid-Autumn Festival Reading-"Mid-Autumn Festival" by Le Fun

Because during the Mid-Autumn Festival, the children did not understand the popular science, nor did they understand the story of joys and sorrows. So I extended the subject of learning the shape of the circle. I took the neighbor children and UU along the road, looking for circles all the way. Car tires, decorations on iron doors, stools, lollipops in supermarkets. Then use sweet potatoes and purple sweet potatoes to make moon cakes with the kids.

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The first two sentences UU learned: "Thankyou!" and "Iamsorry", children apologize for the first time at about one and a half years old. Because the children littered the paintbrushes, his father repeatedly emphasized that "take one and put one" was invalid. Then the two of them "quarreled", and I watched for a while to come forward to mediate. I took the kids to apologize, I apologized first. Because I always took UU to paint before, and I never taught her how to use the brush correctly. I also threw a bunch of paintbrushes everywhere. Therefore, "I am not a godfather", I hold the baby and say that my mother apologizes first, and the mother apologizes to you and father. But you did not do the right thing today. Do you remember that in the book "ThankYOU", the little fox overturned the water and wet the duck's arm. What did she say? Then they are still best friends.

Every day when he picks up his job, he will say "Thank you, grandma" to grandma. There was an aunt who gave her something to eat and play downstairs, and she immediately said "thank you". When a child is willing to share her toys with her, she will sincerely say "thank you". Even after the vaccination in the hospital, he would still cry "thank you" in tears. (Because on the way to the hospital, I told her that the doctor vaccinated her to prevent her from getting sick, so I was helping her)

"Sorry" and "Thank you" may be regarded as two very common sentences. But in my opinion, these are more than just two polite phrases. Learning these two phrases will reduce a lot of "obstacles" in life. It takes courage to apologize and to bear the cost of doing something wrong. I think everyone knows how important it is in our adult world. Will say thank you, knowing to be grateful, will make a person shine. These two sentences come from-ThankYou, one of the DDOLDDOLY picture books of the Geishi Children's English Enlightenment series. This is the imprint that reading leaves us.

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During the New Year, I accompany my grandma to do accounting tests. When my grandma is in line, UU and I go to a nearby park. Under the slide, I met a group of children, all of whom were bigger than UU. We stood by and watched for a while, but she didn't expect her to watch and walk to the side and say "Sister, can I play with you?" "Sister, my name is UU, let's play together".

The aunt next to me and I both looked dumbfounded. It was the first time I heard her say this. The first time I saw her take the initiative to greet a stranger. If you can immediately integrate into the new environment, going to kindergarten should save you a lot of worry. Until now, when playing toys with children, "Let's play together" has become her mantra.

When children are unwilling to share with her, she will also communicate with others on her own, "Let's play together, can I play with you?" So she now has a lot of friends.

She remembered this sentence because: She likes Suzuki's picture book "What is Growth" @北京科技大学出版社, and "Let's Play Together" is one of them. It's worth learning even one sentence from a book, isn't it?

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I actively request to brush my teeth every day, and suggest that my mother put on toothpaste. When we went back to our hometown on Ching Ming Festival, UU asked if grandma did not brush her teeth properly, so she lost her teeth? Grandma too said that I can't brush my teeth. Then I watched UU teach Grandma "Left Swipe, Right Swipe, Upper Swipe, Lower Swipe". Brush your teeth in the morning and brush your teeth at night, otherwise you need to see a dentist.

We learned how to brush our teeth with BrushBrushBrush, and let the children know the consequences of not brushing their teeth with "Crocodile Fear Dentist Fear". So brushing teeth in children is very proactive. If you are interested and want to know how to play such a picture book, you can watch the following video: Know the video?

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Since my father passed away, my house was sitting in tears for at least a month. One day I was sitting on a climbing mat and my baby hugged me from behind and said. Hug your mother, just like the mother of a gorilla.

When I lay down at night, I suddenly remembered what the kid said? Later I realized that it was "Hug"! In that picture book, I told her before that when the baby is sad and upset, my mother will give her a hug. Hugs can warm loved ones. There is also the embrace of love in "My Dad" and "My Mom" ​​surrounded by warm light. So UU has been very fond of hugging others since he was a child. A good friend who has just walked to meet her first gave someone a hug. Children come to play at home and give others a hug as soon as they enter the door. As shown in the picture: UU liked to hug his younger brothers the most when he was young

She felt the warmth that "Hug" planted in her heart, and she passed it on.

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When the child was almost 2 years old, I told her when she was taking a bath that some parts of her body could only be seen when her mother was taking a bath. At other times, no one can see or touch. This is a private part. If someone sees your private parts, you must tell your mother when you come back. Then almost every time I take a bath, I have to emphasize it with the children. Because before going to kindergarten, these safety education must be in place. And only by repeatedly emphasizing children will remember. So now sometimes my dad pats her little butt, and she immediately says no! Then tell mom. Want to recommend children's **** education books? ?

This is an answer that was liked by the parents and children of Zhizhi and collected by Zhizhi Goddess Season. We have read every book in it. It is recommended that parents must read with their little friends before going to kindergarten. If you don't have these picture books, I really don't know how to give guidance and how to speak. Because of these books, now occasionally mom and dad pat her little butt, and she says no! This is my private part! If there are other little boys in the house, she will tell her mother to close the door when she goes to the bathroom. Boys can't watch little girls pee. This set is the most recommended set among all **** enlightenment and safety education picture books.

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There are many examples in life, because I am very familiar with the content of her picture books, so when she says what she says and which picture books come from, I will know immediately. I can understand every word of her, even half a sentence, every word knows what she wants to say and what "story" she has. Not all children's growth depends on picture books. But because of reading picture books and telling stories, the growth of children makes me feel more relaxed. I have never yelled or cursed, and I have never killed my face. It's all in small stories, read over and over again, and then when she encounters the same problem or has the same experience, the behavior in the picture book will appear in her brain and become her behavior. I am not deifying the role of picture books and reading, but I have tasted the sweetness of picture book reading and become a powerful tool and weapon for my childcare. So as long as mom and dad ask questions related to picture books online and offline, I know everything I can say! 2. "The most important things in life are often troublesome-Hayao Miyazaki"-parenting and reading are the same. 1. Parenting problem solution-quick solution vs slow impact

There are many ways to solve the problem of parenting. When the child is disobedient, the parents may sternly scold or use force, "I will count three times, you quickly shut up"! Because there is no need to meet the needs, parents can kick their children in the buttocks by lying on the ground and rolling. Or just pick it up and carry it home. When the child was young, he really couldn't resist an adult in terms of physical strength. This can really end the child's mischief quickly. But have you ever thought about what to do when your child is older?

Reading + listening to stories = slow but long-lasting effective method Reading is a kind of soft and silent way of education, gentle and long-lasting effective, reaching the heart. So take back all the principles and change your violent temper. Use picture books and children's books, and listen to stories to convey the ideas you want to convey.

I have seen a parent who tried his best to tell his child the great truth in almost an hour. Hearing that the child's eyes were dull, he didn't know where his thoughts had gone long ago. And the reason why the principle is "big", because it is so empty, is it really a kid. In fact, it is quite difficult for me to reason. Because you have to be optimistic about the time, occasion, and whether the child's mood is suitable for reasoning. Also consider the way of speaking and whether the child can understand.

Is reading relatively easier? For example, you want to cultivate children-kind, positive, optimistic, compassionate, patient, respectful, earnest, practical, grateful, self-confident and humble, etc. Don't talk about some big truths, search, consult, and find picture books on related topics, and your education will be twice the result with half the effort! For example, if you search for children's EQ picture books/toilet picture books/picture books for cultivating living habits/independent picture books/focus picture books/etc. on e-commerce platforms or on Zhihu, there will be many picture books for reference.

Children who can learn to behave and do things in reading are extremely happy. It is also the main motivation for my efforts to promote picture books and bring good books to more children. 2. Imagination---Mom, there is a crocodile in my bowl!

I heard UU yelling "Mom, there is a crocodile in my porridge". I rushed to see it when I shouted, which scared me a bit. It turned out that the porridge cooked by my father was a bit thin, and the rice water was separated. Then the kid threw a piece of green cucumber down by himself, faintly, just like the crocodile hiding in the water when reading The OldAlligator these days, waiting for the ducklings to come over, catch up with the three little ducks, and eat it. She liked this book very much, and later I used this book to serve her and solved the problem of the hawker scum.

When she saw a cucumber with green pimple skin in the porridge, she immediately thought of it as the crocodile in the story. This book and another story, GoawayMrWolf, are combined into one book.

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3.1 "Warm Winter" of "Four Seasons" @浪花朵童书 Come on, so that the children who are less than 2 years old have found in this set of books, we come to apply for the youngest readers. In this set of treasure picture books, the children's observation ability refreshed my cognition. There is a very small and very small detail. I have been able to read this book about 100+ times since I got this set of books, but I didn’t find a detail! The last page of "Four Seasons" of "Bitter Winter" has a Santa Claus and a yellow motorcycle. , One day when she was reading with a child, she pointed to her mother and grandpa, Santa Claus, came from a long distance to ride a motorcycle. Ok? how do you know? So she picked up the book and flipped forward to the first page. I have read every person on the first page of my impressions carefully, but I haven't seen Grandpa Christmas. She pointed it out to me in the end.

I have the picture above, let's see it together! Page 1, red mark page 2, look at red mark page 3, red mark page 4, look at red mark page 5, look at red mark page 6, look at red mark

This power of observation really surprised me. Although I have read the picture book many times, most of my attention is on the figure below, and the small figure above has not been carefully seen. So I really praise the children's observation ability!

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3.2 "The crocodile is afraid, the dentist is afraid"

She was even younger when observing the book's camera. Before my mother saw the crocodile had reached the door of the doctor's clinic.

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We read Red Rocket with children every day, and read this book on Red Riding Hood. This version of Little Red Riding Hood is slightly different from what we heard before. Grandma hid in the closet, and then on the second page, Dad knocked out the big bad wolf. The logic is obviously faulty in the middle. In the evening, my dad asked what I learned today to tell my dad. When she talked about this, she said: Red Rocket Graded Reading Grandma hid in the closet and quietly sent WeChat to Dad. Dad found out and drove up.

Wow, it really works, so why is it sending a WeChat message instead of making a phone call? He called the big bad wolf and found his grandmother.

Wow, my dad and I looked at each other and were convinced by her logical reasoning ability.

My family insists on reading English enlightenment every day, very recommended!

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I have always believed that concentration is a crucial factor in whether a person can do things successfully. So when she was a child, as long as there was no danger involved, I never interrupted her. When she was just 1 year old, she picked up "My Dad" I remember at the beginning. She took it backwards, sitting on a brick bucket, turning page by page by herself, which lasted about ten minutes. Then I couldn't help but made a small video. Know the video?

6. Parent-child relationship, parental love is visualized

There are no parents who do not love their children. But love is too abstract, or read a picture book with the children after dinner in the morning and make the baby laugh with exaggerated expressions. Or put your child in your arms at night, you read her and listen. Discuss together in bed. This is the best and happiest moment of my every day. A high-quality parent-child relationship is established in this way, putting your love for children in every picture book. 7. Fall in love with reading and get happiness in reading

We had to read before going to bed until she said to stop, and she cried when we put the book away. The first thing you do when you wake up in the morning is to stand in front of the bookshelf and read the book. There are 8 bookshelves in my house, big and small, and she has books to read everywhere. She can sing when she is happy, and when she tells stories, she follows the way I tell her. I also secretly filmed a lot of small videos which are included in this year's growth record.

When I learned the color Brown, I contacted Brownbear Brownbear what do you see? , And then found the book on the shelf, sang and danced. She is really happy every day because of reading this. I am quite envious of her, there is an extremely rich source of happiness. When she grows up, I think she should not be a person who is not afraid of being alone. 8. Language expression, oral output

The language in all the above examples is from a child from 1 year old to just 2 years old. When her good friend was silent, she had already said two or three words. I remember that the most impressive thing is that she should be less than 1 year old, because she will not leave yet. Walking downstairs on the cobblestone path, crying hard to come down to eat "eggs"! The egg, the egg's shouted. Later, she can tell little stories to grandma and dad, "reason" to the children, comfort the crying children, tell her sister that food should not be wasted, and so on. Her mass production of Chinese vocabulary often surprises my dad and me, and her English vocabulary is quite large.

She can have a good output, there is only one reason, that is, I give a lot of input. How else did these words come from for no reason? And what do I enter? If it is not for the theme provided by the picture book~www.wuxiaspot.com~ I can only enter three meals a day. I have read a lot of picture books, and I like reading pictures the most. I can say a lot about a picture, and she can say a lot too. In this way, I think it should go smoother after reading pictures or writing essays after school. 9. Rich in heart, delicate emotions, and empathetic

Just 10 days after my father died, my husband and I returned to our hometown. The child and grandma were at home, and the grandma said that the baby cried loudly when she heard the song "Little Tadpoles Find Mother", crying very sad, and tears a lot. At first she thought the child would not cry well. A few days later, as long as Xiaodu sang this song, she immediately shed tears in sadness. Later I came back, and the influence of this song gradually faded.

This is such a rich, concentric and emotional child. Can't find Tadpole's mother, and her without her mother, for whom did her tears shed? My mother-in-law made a small video for me. I remember every time I read a book, I would focus on letting her look at the expressions of characters and animals, to judge their mood, and to bring myself to the story to experience their feelings. I think her kindness and empathy should come from reading.

?? At the end of writing, I don't know what kind of achievements my children can achieve through reading. Or what role can she read in her later life. But at least through reading now, I feel that bringing a child is easy and enjoyable. This is the significance of our 1.5-year parent-child reading in the growth of children.

All recommended picture books have been read with my children a lot, and most of them have some interesting and expanded video sharing. No one is recommended by anyone who hasn't seen the real thing. The good books I read are all you can safely close your eyes and enter the series. For more picture book questions, please pay attention to UU妈妈画本玩读@UU妈妈绘本玩读

@ Know almost parent-child good wishes.