Immortal Becomes a Stay-at-home Dad After Return

35. Chapter 35 Education

    Half past three in the afternoon.

    It’s still half an hour away from school, but it’s already crowded with black people.

    You don't have to guess, you know, these are all parents who come to pick up their own children.

    Chen Xi A young man in his twenties, standing among the aunts and grandmothers, seems to have a taste of standing out.

    The children are playing games on the kindergarten playground.

    Chen Xi looked at the little guy across the wall and found that she was playing on the slide, and she did not notice herself standing outside the fence.

    It seems that I am happy to forget to find Papa, which makes Chen Xi feel a lot more comfortable.

    He is really afraid that Niannian will not adapt to the kindergarten environment.

    You must not let your child suffer from a strange disease such as autism and depression. Because these involve heart disease such as mental health, he really has no rule of law...

    Chen Xi stood outside the wall and looked at Niannian. At this time, an aunt suddenly reached out and patted him.

    "Hey, boy, are you the child of Zhang Dajie's family?"

    Chen Xi looked back, but saw a smiling big sister standing behind him.

    It’s not the fat aunt that he came back on the first day and just met in the neighborhood.

    AH Yes, I live in 5 buildings, Unit 1, 302. What are you? ”

    "Oh, I said, I always feel that you are familiar, as if I have seen it in the neighborhood several times. I suddenly saw Niannian inside, so I thought, Niannian will be your child...My name is money, you call the money Auntie, my grandson is also inside, look, that is the trickster. ”

    Fat aunt said, but also smiled and pointed to the boy who was running like a wind on the playground.

    Looking at her posture, I am afraid that I have completely forgotten that I have used Chen Xi as a madman for dinner.

    "Hello, Auntie, I am working outside, just going home for a while, so I can't even recognize the neighbors next door..."

    "Nothing is okay, you will know each other in a while."

    Aunt Qian swayed and waved and said: "I told you, your home Niannian is the most embarrassing child in our neighborhood. The little girl is cute, and our family Peng Peng likes to play with her."

    "Was I? Ha ha

    Chen Xi smiled politely.

    It may be because I am not used to dealing with the aunts and aunts, so he does not know what to say now. He can only laugh and listen to the money aunt.

    "That must be. Last time I teased my silly boy and said that he would marry Niannian when he grew up. Oops, you didn't see it. At that time, the silly boy blushes like a monkey's butt, and he is dying. ”

    "Really?"

    "Of course, you don't say, now the children of 4-5 years old are much smarter than we were at that time. This is a big point to distinguish who can look good and who is not good." Many children in the neighborhood like to play with Niannian, but only Zhang Dajie used to have a child, so she took Niannian out for a little time. Since you are back, you can always bring Niannian out to play..."

    Hear this, Chen Xi’s face is still smiling, but his heart suddenly has some vigilance.

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    Martinson (SM)It is believed that children will have a sense of love and behavior towards the opposite sex from around the age of three.

    The child's curiosity is strong, and he cares about everything, including his concern for human organs.

    Sometimes it's a person, sometimes a heterosexual partner, or let each other see the X organ, or touch it with your hand.

    Most of his expressions are [Imitation Doctor], [掀 Skirt], [Fake Marriage], [Family House] and other games.

    According to the RB Nagoya City Youth Issues Association survey of 290 children in 1970, 201 people were doing squat skirt movements, while 70% of children stopped squatting skirts under adult eyelids; 167 peeked toilets; There were 164 voyeurs and 108 people who played with X organs.

    This shows that this is a common behavior among children and cannot be effectively avoided.

    At the thought of this, Chen Xi felt a little uncomfortable.

    Dare to hit my daughter's idea?

    No, I have to find an opportunity to popularize the knowledge of sex education for Niannian...

    Human sexual psychology, its development and the formation of gender roles have certain rules. Generally, if it is allowed to develop naturally, the results are usually normal; if it is imposed on children's incorrect educational methods, it is likely to form abnormal results. .

    Especially for children between the ages of 3 and 5, through sex education, the sexuality of children should be confirmed by society and individuals in the sense of sexual sociology and sexual psychology. ?

    If you find that your child has an incorrect performance in terms of sex, you should calmly and patiently correct it, guide naturally, and not roar or intimidate.

    For example, if a child is playing with an X organ, some mothers will anger and stop: "Do not move!"Dirty Don't touch this place! ""Shy! Do not touch in the future! ”

    Or forcibly pulled open by hand, even giving a dozen beats.

    This is actually very easy to affect children from a small form of misconception: X organs are dirty, unacceptable, untouchable, and therefore X-related activities are to be suppressed, otherwise they will be punished.

    Children are in this relatively closed or conservative environment for a long time, and the sexual needs are suppressed by tangible or invisible. In severe cases, they may even cause physical or mental disorders or pathological changes.

    Therefore, letting go of the law and guiding it correctly is the only effective and correct approach.

    Perhaps because of the traditional concept of blame, after chatting with Qian Aunt, Chen Xi's mood is very complicated.

    Niannian is a girl after all, so he always feels that his daughter is going to suffer...

    Although Chen Xi also understands that it is all children's troubles, more of them as a kind of nature and instinct of human beings, but he still feels a little uncomfortable...

    Very unhappy...

    Very unhappy...

    At 4 o'clock in the afternoon, the kindergarten was out of school.

    Chen Xi squeezed into the school gate, and the little guy looked at the arrived Chen Xi in the crowd.

    She shouted "Papa" while trying to get out of the iron gate, but was stopped by Wang teacher in time.

    The children in the kindergarten can not pick up anyone. When Wang sees Chen Xi, she takes Niannian's hand and brings the little guy out of the school.

    "Papa!"

    The little guy just stepped through the iron gate and threw himself down on Chen Xi's leg, then holding Chen Xi's thigh and leaning his head on the sweet head: "Papa, I really miss you !"

    "Hey, mua!"

    Chen Xi laughed and hugged the little guy, then asked her to say to Teacher Wang: "Say goodbye to the teacher."

    "goodbye teacher!"

    The little guy is swaying with a small hand, and it looks good to Mr. Wang.

    Teacher Wang and Chen Xi were very polite, and then praised the little guy who was very sensible, and she was busy sending another child.

    Chen Xi is holding Niannian on the road, and the little guy is excited to tell him what he has experienced today.

    "Niannian, do you like kindergarten?"

    Like

    Hear this, the little guy nodded immediately.

    She has always been a person to play with, and suddenly there are so many friends of the same age, naturally will be happy.

    "The Father will bring you there tomorrow, okay?"

    "Alright!"

    "be good."

    Chen Xi touched her little face, and her heart was guessing, when will the little guy say that she should not go to kindergarten...

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