Go back to 1980 and enjoy it

Deng Changyuan and Deng Yuntai have been playing together since they were young. Naturally, they know how Jiu Gong, a father, treats his daughter-in-law. Compared with Jiu Gong, some of his parents' practices are really hard to describe.

This time his daughter-in-law went to the county town to have a baby, and she spent his hard-earned money. Unexpectedly, his sister-in-law and parents had such an attitude. They openly and secretly accused his daughter-in-law of spending money indiscriminately, which made him feel guilty. It's uncomfortable to be blocked.

Yes, they have not separated yet, and the money he earns is also the money of this big family.

But he didn't really throw the money away. Going to the county to give birth was related to the safety of his wife and child, which was very necessary.

In order to support his wife's birth in the county town, the Yuntai couple not only provided a place for their daughter-in-law and her father-in-law and mother-in-law to live, but also personally rushed to the county town to help take care of the baby. It can be said that they contributed both money and effort.

In contrast, his parents, elder brother and sister-in-law were accusing his wife of spending money indiscriminately, which really disappointed him.

This was the main reason why he, who never said harsh words in front of his parents, directly said that he wanted to separate the family and live alone.

I hope his parents and eldest brother and sister-in-law don't go too far, so that the family can live together for a few more years. If they don't listen to the advice and have to say something they shouldn't say in front of his wife, then don't blame him for being unfilial. Please ask Jiugong to come forward and help separate the family.

With his current income, if he split up and lived alone, he wouldn't know how good his life would be!

Ou Guohua naturally didn't know that when she was expecting to give birth in the county town, her husband had harsh words with her family because of her. Her life in the county town these days has greatly broadened her horizons and allowed her to truly experience The difference between city people and country people.

There is feces and urine everywhere in the village. It is normal for rural children to poop directly in front of their homes. If the home is close to a river or stream, after the child has finished pooping, he will shovel the poop directly into the creek or stream. If the home is not near a stream or stream, , then just call the dog back and eat it.

In later generations, no matter whether they are urbanites or rural people, I am afraid that they have never seen dogs eating shit, but in the countryside of this era, dogs eating shit is a common thing, and everyone has long been accustomed to it.

In addition to human feces, there are also feces from chickens and ducks. Most chickens and ducks in rural areas are free-range. Naturally, chicken and duck feces are everywhere in front and behind the house. If you don’t stare at the road while walking, it will be 100% wrong. Winning prize.

If you step on something dry, it's okay, but if you step on something fresh, it's disgusting enough.

As for the county, everything is clean, especially last month, which was my country's first "National Civility and Politeness Month". The entire county's garbage was cleaned up, and even the dead spots were cleaned up one by one. , it really doesn’t look too comfortable.

This is only a comparison of health levels, and there are comparisons in other aspects. Rural areas are not at the same level as county towns.

Ou Guohua and her little sister said with emotion: "Sister Ping, life in this county is indeed a hundred times more comfortable than in the village. No wonder so many people try their best to become city dwellers. I have only lived here for a few days and I don't want to go back." ”

Zhang Xiuping smiled and said: "Don't worry, after my hotel opens and I get familiar with the county, I will help find a business suitable for you and A Fang. Then you can come to the county to keep me company."

Ou Guohua said: "Then I will wait for your good news. Being able to live in the county and do anything is better than living in the village!"

Zhang Xiuping said: "Don't think too much about it now. Wait until the child is born and raise it until he stops breastfeeding. Otherwise, you won't be able to do any business with the child."

Ou Guohua was a little annoyed when it came to taking care of the children. She sighed and said, "I don't know if my father-in-law and mother-in-law are willing to help take care of the children. If not, I have to take care of the children myself. Then I'm afraid I want to do business in the county." Difficult."

Zhang Xiuping thought of what happened to cousin Bu Dafang and said, "If your father-in-law and mother-in-law are not willing to help take care of the child, then you can ask your parents to take care of the child. Then you can legitimately give your parents a sum of money every month. It can be said that it kills two birds with one stone." "

Ou Guohua's eyes lit up when she heard this: "Sister Ping, if you have a way, then let's do it this way."

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Ou Guohua was initiated on the morning of the seventh day of the fourth lunar month, and she gave birth to a baby girl when she was working on maternal and child health care until around seven o'clock in the evening.

Ou's father and Ou's mother were very happy when their granddaughter was born, but Ou Guohua, the mother, still felt a little regretful. For rural people, not being able to give birth to a son in their first child was not satisfactory after all.

After all, they have been sisters who have played together since they were young. Zhang Xiuping saw what Ou Guohua was thinking at a glance and said: "Ah Hua, it's actually good to have a daughter. You see, isn't the daughter I gave birth to a daughter? In the future, the two of them will also You can play together from childhood to adulthood like we did.

If you give birth to a son, then the two of them may not be able to play together. From this point of view, it is actually a good thing and can continue our sisterhood. "

Ou Guohua had just given birth to a baby, and her face was still a little pale. She smiled and said, "Sister Ping, you can comfort people. In fact, I don't care whether it's a boy or a girl, but you know the environment in the village. My father-in-law and mother-in-law are I'm not as open-minded as Jiu Gong. I came to the county town to give birth this time, and I don't know if they said anything behind my back!

If I give birth to a daughter and take her back, I'm afraid they will say some unpleasant things in front of me. "

Zhang Xiuping frowned and said, "It shouldn't happen, right?"

Ou Guohua sighed: "I hope I am overthinking it, but based on my understanding of my father-in-law and mother-in-law, there is a certain chance that this may happen."

Zhang Xiuping thought for a while and said, "Let's do this. When we go back tomorrow, A Fang and I will take turns going to your house to accompany you. I believe that with the two of us here, your parents-in-law will not dare to say anything strange to you."

Ou Guohua Dao: "That's just treating the symptoms but not the root cause."

Zhang Xiuping said: "If you don't want to go back, tell your Ayuan and ask him to say hello to his parents in advance, so as not to say anything that hurts the harmony of the family."

Ou Guohua shook his head and said: "Forget it, this is just my own guess. After all, the thing has not happened yet. If I tell my family, A Yuan, it seems that I am deliberately provoking. It is better to keep the same in the face of changes. Look at me Let’s wait and see if my father-in-law and mother-in-law will say anything unpleasant!”

Zhang Xiuping nodded and said: "Okay, let's take a look first and then talk. Anyway, I will go there to accompany you every day. If you need my help, just ask."

"Okay, let's not talk about these unhappy things. Sister Ping, come and see if this child looks more like me or her father?"

"Of course he looks more like you. Look at his nose, his mouth, and his little hands. They are all exactly the same as yours."

"Really? Let me see..."