Chapter 190 Conflict Avoidance (22)

As soon as the two left, Kang Hui categorically denied Chen Minhao's words and said, "No, if you are really not suitable for reality shows, then you will not win the first place in "Artist Trainee". debuted with great results."

Kang Hui took out a bottle of red wine from Chen Minhao's cupboard. This bottle of red wine was brought by her as a gift for Chen Minhao's housewarming.

Kang Hui simply and rudely poured the red wine into two glasses, handing one to Chen Minhao and keeping the other for himself.

Kang Hui used the remote control panel to open the first episode of "Artist Trainee", and fast forwarded to the moment when Chen Minhao was there, she said: "Look at you for the first time on a variety show, I remember when the first episode was broadcast After that, your Weibo followers just exceeded 1 million, and I bought 500,000 of them for you. You are recalling your performance in "Good Times" just now, which has nearly 17 million fans you."

Kang Hui lit a cigarette with a lighter, and said: "When you were in "Artist Trainee", your clothing and styling were quite different from those in "Good Times", but your eyeballs rolled so fast, you When you smile, you also smile generously. When you are angry, you frown deeply, and you actively provoke the topic. Your whole body is shining!"

"But in "Good Times", you don't shine anymore. You are still handsome, but your whole person gives me the feeling that you are very submissive."

Kang Hui took a deep breath and said, "Tell me, what were you thinking when you were filming "Artist Trainee"? What were you thinking when you were filming "Good Time"?"

Chen Minhao fell into silence and did not speak.

Kang blew out a smoke ring and said, "Actually, you are afraid, afraid that you will not perform well. Because you have nothing like at the beginning, so you are not afraid of losing. But there is nothing to be embarrassed about. More than a year ago, you I don’t have a Weibo account yet, but now your Weibo account has more than 17 million fans. In addition to the 500,000 fans I bought for you at the initial stage, your real fans are 16 million. It’s only one year. Your Weibo fans are growing at a rate of nearly 20 million.

To be honest, Chen Minhao, your growth rate is far beyond my imagination. You are the fastest artist we have brought. The current development of the Internet allows information to spread at high speed, making it possible for a person to become popular quickly. But just like few people who won the lottery jackpot have a good death, in fact, the popularity of artists will cause many artists to have psychological problems.

Many popular artists will drink alcohol, go shopping, have promiscuous sex, etc., but smarter artists like you will restrain themselves. But hiding the problem in the mind will eventually cause mental health imbalance.

Take your senior sister Wan Anqi as an example. She acted as the second female queen in a Gongdou drama and became famous overnight. But in Gongdou drama, there are more women, and there are a few female stars who have extended the struggle inside the play to outside the play.

After your senior sister finished acting in that play, she became popular, but she also fell into a certain degree of persecution paranoia. I always feel that some people in the crew are trying to harm her. "

Kang Hui put out the cigarette butt and said, "Chen Minhao, your heart is very strong, but you are not a man of iron."

Chen Minhao showed an expression of "Are you kidding me?" He frowned and looked at Kang Hui, and said, "I have read many books on psychology, and I don't think I have any symptoms of mental illness. .”

"Psychological problems are not the same as mental illness. Kang Hui picked up his wine glass and said in a steady tone: "You have your own psychological problems, Chen Minhao. Some problems are confusing to the authorities but clear to the bystanders. "

Chen Minhao chuckled.

Just as Chen Minhao was about to refute, Kang Hui immediately blocked Chen Minhao's rebuttal, saying: "You were still a trainee who hadn't debuted at the time, but you were full of energy and full of longing for the future. But now you have a TV series that exploded, A web drama has exploded. You scored 688 in the culture class of the college entrance examination. In the art test, you will be the first in Beijing Film and the third in Chinese opera.

But now when you are filming variety shows, why do you only participate programmatically and give feedback mechanically? Why don't you take the initiative to stir up the topic? You even subconsciously refuse interviews and reality shows. Can you tell me what is the reason? "

Chen Minhao picked up the red wine on the table, drank it down, then poured himself another glass, said while holding the wine glass, frowning and said: "I don't know, I just feel that I don't enjoy standing in front of the camera that much. Even a little resistant."

After drinking another glass of red wine, Chen Minhao said, "I'm a little worried that I won't be liked by the audience. To be honest, I never thought that I would receive so much attention."

Kang Hui also drank the wine in his glass and said: "You are afraid. In fact, everyone desires to be different in their hearts, but they are also afraid of being different. Chen Minhao, you have now become Only 0.01% of entertainers can live to become a star. In fact, when you go to a coffee shop to observe the waiters and are secretly photographed by paparazzi, it is a turning point. Your lifestyle is different from most people in the world.

But you still want to go further in terms of popularity, but you are worried that your behavior will bring adverse effects on yourself, so you dare not do it. You become very receptive and choose to escape. This is psychologically It's called approach-avoidance conflict. "

Kang Hui looked into Chen Minhao's eyes and said: "You don't have to be afraid, you are shining when you are yourself. So you just keep being yourself like in "Artist Trainee". We will not be able to do ABtest in the future, but since Judging from past experience, the audience still likes you quite a lot, right?

And if you mess up yourself, I'll wipe your ass. How to eliminate adverse effects and so on, these are my jobs, and Chen Minhao, you have only one thing to do, that is to be yourself bravely, the more you worry about your actions, whether your actions will be liked by the audience, you The less it will be liked by the audience. "

Chen Minhao felt that he was really convinced. He recalled his mental journey, and Kang Hui's analysis was very accurate: "When I was filming "Artist Trainee", my mentality was that the audience liked real trainees, and I couldn't play it." To be true, I chose to be myself. After all, I was confident in my own charm at the time, and I was determined to be myself in the show, or to let myself go. But now, many actions will consider whether the audience likes it or not.”

Kang Hui brushed his hair and said: "Actually, in the entertainment industry, your enemies are not only other stars and entertainers, but you also have to constantly compete with yourself. So, I would like to advise you to carefully consider reporting Which school, don't choose to play Xiangzhong because you are afraid of being exposed."

………

Inner strength is actually true strength.

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